Last night, I learned the devastating news that an old friend of mine from high school had suddenly passed away.
We haven’t seen each other in years, but once upon a time, I considered him a very close friend. He’d even declared his feelings for me on more than one occasion. 😉
I was also best friends with his sister during my high school days, and I regularly hung out at their home, sometimes, just to see him.
And even though our lives had gone in very different directions over the years, we still kept in touch through his engagements on my Facebook page, as recently as a week or so ago. I always appreciated that he took the time to read my blogs and that he genuinely cared about my well-being and mental health journey, even through his own personal health struggles. That was Shaun, though.
Since hearing the news of his passing last night, I’ve been unable to focus on much else. It’s kind of a strange feeling to have so many emotions for someone I haven’t been friends with in over 30 years now.
But I know it’s okay to feel my feelings. It’s normal to feel this way, especially as the memories from that time in my life came flooding back today, all at once. I’m really glad I’ve also been able to share a connection and stories with other “old” friends today as well. It really helps a lot.
Shaun, you were larger than life and always the life of the party. I hope you’re cooking up a storm tonight, wherever you are. Rest easy, old friend. You will be sorely missed by all who loved you, both past and present.
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